the differences between man and woman

Sometime im wondering, why man and woman so difficult to understand each other.
right now i have a little clue, what it happen.
Maybe its not happen to everybody, but at least maybe most of us like this.

When men has a girlfriend, they still want to have their own time, their freedom.
Women also like that, we still want our freedom, but we will never spend time with our friends if we know its the time to spend with our boyfriend.

Most of us (women) always put our boyfriend as our first priority, no one can disturb our time with them. We want to spend time with our friends, as long its not take our "lovers time".

If we spend time without them, we still thinking bout our boyfriend and the result?
we cant enjoy our time, coz we always thinking bout our boyfriend.
We always thinking that this time will be great if my boyfriend is here.
But, it seems never happen to a man!

With or without their girlfriend the still can enjoy their time, or maybe for some guy its better they hangout without us.

I cant blame on them, what they did is right and its good for them!
What i regret is, why we women or girls can think like that. why we too depend to our boyfriend?
Why guys cant realize, if they are down, sick, or broke, the only person who will stand by them are us, not their stupid friends??

Why we cant spend normal time without thinking bout a selfish, childish, full of ego creatures named "MAN"???

Its hurt to know that someone who can live without you, but u cant live without them!!

tahun baru, ilang hp

Hmm.., Tahun baru!!! Semangat baru, hidup baru..
sekarang masalahnya tepat di hari pertama di tahun 2009,
hp gue ilang...
wwwhhhoooaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hikshikssss..
gak tau itu pertanda bad luck,
ato sebaliknya awal tahun buang sial duluan, jadi selanjutnya lucky terus..
hmmm.., i prefer the second option..
mudah2an dengan hilangnya hp gue di tahun baru ini
semua yg buruk2 di ilangin..
amin..

last day

Today is last day in 2008, HORRREEEE..
hmmm, headache & flu that how i feel rite now..
why this fuc*** sickness came in the same time with new year eve??
but, whatever... at least i still alive until today
to celebrate new year 2009.
new year, new spirit, new heart, and new life..
SEMANGAT!!

serbuu

Today, after work i will go to mall
hunting discount products..
hheheh, jaman lagi susah nih..
kudu pinter2 pilih barang..
READY, GET SET, GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
AYO dipilih dipilih...

new year 2008

Hmm.., almost new year nich..
again and again i will spend my new year eve without my boyfriend..
sad, disappointed its my feeling right now., but what else i can say?
at least right now, this year i still can spend my with my parent and friends.

and the most important thing is, my new year resolutions.
Be a better daughter, sister, girlfriend, and friends
stop smoking (which is i still cant stop it until now)
save money
never late go to my office
clean my room
save money again
hehhehe..
i think thats all..

yeah i can do all of it or not,
just wait and see..
at the end at least i try..

btw, happy new year guys..
hope u have a blast in this new year eve
hev fun, take care and remember save sex(i always remind this thing to my friend)..
ciauuu

"Bapak itu"

"Bapak itu", jangan mau ditakutin donk..
yang ada harusnya diseganin..

gak tau apa emang karena gue phobia ama "Bapak itu" ato emang semua org sama kaya gue yah..

Tiap pagi gue naek motor ke kantor,
ngelewatin beberapa persimpangan dan lampu merah..
tiap kali berhenti di lampu merah, ntah naek motor ato mobil
jantung gue pasti deg degan (kalo ada bapak kita itu yah)

kalo ada "bapak itu" trus kita jadi naatin peraturan lalu lintas, trus ga ngelanggar lampu merah, trus ga ngelewatin marka jalan itu sih bagus..

sekarang yg jadi masalah itu kalo kita udah taat2, tapi masih kena tilang juga..
BT banget kan????

tiap kali lampu merah, pasti ada aja org yg kena tilang.
padahal klo diliat yah orang itu gak salah apa2
helm pake, spion lengkap, gak lewatin garis, dan yang paling parah.. berhenti di lampu merah..

klo kita udah nyoba buat taat tapi malah kena tilang,
udah gak bener tuh..
hehhehe.., udah edan jaman ini..

"Bapak itu" ditakutin karena terkenal suka nyari gara2, bukannya terkenal karena membela kebenaran (kaya pahlawan bertopeng yah)

hehehhe..,
udah akh.., mati ide nih..
temen2 kasih comment yah mengenai "bapak itu"

pacarku bule!!

Hmm.., pacarku bule..

"enak donk nanti bisa ganti kewarganegaraan"
"pasti anak kamu cute"
"wah, banyak duitnya tuh"
"tinggi yah? matanya warna apa?"
"romantis donk pasti?"
"kalo mo kissingan gimana, kan kamu pendek (ups imoet kali bukan pendek)"

diatas ini adalah beberapa omongan yang sering gue denger dari temen2 begitu tau pacar gue bule..
tapi yang paling sering dan extrem :"wah, bule?? gede donk.. suka yang gede2 yah"

hehehe, kadang lucu sih kalo liat ekspresi org2..
banyak yang positive, tapi gak jarang juga negative..

Beda itu indah, tapi kadang nyebelin juga sih..
mulai dari beda makan.., ya iyalah secara mulut gue ini mulut kampoeng banget doyan nya nasi uduk, bakso, sio may, dan aneka jajanan kampung lainnya (sslurrpppss, jadi laper nih)..

banyak kejadian lucu, aneh, nyenengin, nyebelin yang gue lalui selama pacaran ama bule..

Mulai berantem gara2 makan, bosen makan direstoran tertentu, berantem gara2 miscom (sama2 org indo aja kadang suka miscom kan??), trus yang gak ngerti jalan pikiran dia gimana, tapi....
yang paling parah, gue pernah di sangka hooker alias pelacur ama supir taxi..
sial banget gak tuh?? gara2 gue pacaran ama bule, emang udah pasti gue hooker??

tuh supir dengan seenak jidatnya nanya gue
"mbak mbak, mau tanya nich kog cari cew chinese itu susah yah?? kadang tamu saya minta cew chinese suka gak dapet tuh""

Ya Tuhan, ampuni lah supir taxi itu..

tapi yah, mau diapain lagi..
semua ada plus minusnya kan??

lagian love is blind, dan gue gak bs milih siapa yang bakalan ngelepasin panah ke hati gue..

lagian kalo gue bs milih, gue gak akan pilih orang lain.
karena at least until today, he is the best guy i ever met..

I love u baby..